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I wonder we replaced the term "normal" with "natural" and then asked the questions you ask of. I look at women and look at my straight friends and see what they have It's natural to love and be loved, to lust and be lusted.
As another gay man I can tell you that all of the things you want to make your life a natural life ARE natural and are achievable.
You mentioned your best friend who is straight and you have a crush on. I know it does, it's even enough to not want those feelings anymore, and to not want to be gay so it never happened in the first place. It's enough to even nesding a wish to be normal straight? I bet your best friend is an amazing guy who's got your back and you can obviously tell anything to and I also bet you find him attractive.
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These things are what help us fall in love with. Not being able to be with that person really sucks.
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I can promise you that there will be someone out there who you will fall in love with who you will have beautiful feelings for who has you back and is attractive and is able to return all the love you. That's a promise.
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And no matter whether you are straight or gay, you still have the same ultimate option: Do you follow society's dictates as to who you are? Or do you make yourself according to your own ideas about who you are? I came out over 14 years ago and reading your post brought back so many memories for me.
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I just felt even more upset and disgusted with. While I know it hurts right now, one day you will find someone who loves you back and it will be the most wonderful feeling in the world. I struggled with it too, though as a lesbian I obviously had things a bit easier than you.
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Make some new friends, and, by doing so, you will establish a new network of supportive and encouraging people around you. Sadly, not everyone in the world is a modern, accepting person. In the end, your sexual orientation is your business.
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